Love and Respect your Wife

There is no one-size-fits-all formula for being a wonderful husband. Every wife and every marriage is different. But there are some common issues that many married couples face, and if you're dealing with them, the following guidelines will help you become a better husband.

Steps

Be Honest

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   Be honest. In a mature relationship, honesty is the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. No matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that you are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives you the same respect. If something doesn't suit them let them know, otherwise they will not trust your opinion. But make it sound like a compliment.
   • Suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative. For example, if they ask you if you like something they are trying on (trying on, not already wearing at a party!) let them know that it might work, but you think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great (insert a feature you appreciate, preferably not one that they are self-conscious about).
   • It's not going to be easy to be honest and kind at the same time, so focus on learning how to give a feedback sandwich and you'll both be better off.
     
     

     
     

Communicate

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   Communicate. Do not talk her ear off, however make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, she is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature. Zone out everything around you when you're talking to her. If you ask her a question, ask because you really want to know. For example, ask her what type of movies she enjoys, or about one of her favourites.
   • If you know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what you thought of it, and make a guess at why she might have liked it. Even if you are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that you are interested enough to try. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting, it's listening.
   • Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. Put off a vibe that tells her that she can tell you anything. Make her feel safe.
     
     

     
     
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   Don't brush your wife off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. A lot of people have been taught that the only way to get attention when their partner is trying to ignore them is to act more emotional and be louder until the partner finally surrenders and pays attention to her, even if in annoyance.
   • If people feel they're being given the cold treatment by people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially when it happens without you giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky just because they wouldn't let you do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas you found it important.
   • If you know that your mood might lead you to overreact, simply say "I'm feeling really irritated right now. Can we talk about this later after I cool off a bit?" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)
     
     

     
     

Respect Her

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   Don't show her even the mildest forms of contempt. Contempt is poison in a relationship. You don't have to act like you like what she said or did, but do not take on an attitude of superiority, even subtly in passing, such as momentary smirking, sighs of disgust or eye-rolling. Such gestures, though seemingly insignificant, deeply show a lack of support, respect and trust, especially over a period of time.
   • The way you naturally act towards her should subtly validate her as a person, even when you do not understand or agree with her. Giving eye contact when she has something important to tell you shows respect; not giving eye contact shows disrespect and that you don't care about her or what she has to say. This will destroy any attempt to communicate well.
   • If you show contempt in front of your child(ren) they will then feel that is an appropriate way to treat their mother. A son may feel he can treat his wife with contempt if he witnessed you treat your wife that way.
     
     

     
     

Be Romantic

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   Be romantic. What "being romantic" means varies widely from person to person, but at its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. A true act of romance requires creativity and sincerity, often inspired by love (either its presence or its possibility).
   Reintroduce the excitement that characterized the beginning of the relationship. Do something different, something that your wife wouldn't expect. The more out of the ordinary, the better!
   
   

   
   
   • Treat your wife like they're single, like you're trying to earn her affection and trust. The opposite of being romanced is being taken for granted. No one wants to feel like they've already been "caught" and it's over and done with.
   • There are millions of ways to say "I love you" and "I'm lucky to have you." Think of the world as your medium. You can write it, say it, sculpt it, look it, hide it, shout it, paint it, kiss it, fold it, grow it, touch it, and express it in unlimited ways.
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   Keep your sex life invigorated. Kiss her goodbye in the morning like you don't want her to leave. It gives her something to think about all day. Be romantic. Suggest new ideas. Ask what she likes. Be willing to put her pleasure ahead of yours. Talk about it. Intimacy (emotional and physical closeness) is important to women.
   
   

   
   
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   Give gifts as a surprise. Anyone can buy a gift for a birthday, Christmas or an anniversary. Listen to her when you are out window shopping, and if there is something she likes, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise her with it when she least expects it, for no reason at all. Or pick something up on your way home from work, and tell her you were thinking of her when you saw it. It doesn't have to be big or expensive - a book you know she will like, or a CD of her favourite band are nice gestures.
   
   

   
   
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   Give what she needs. Ask her for what she needs to feel loved by you. If she needs you to give her compliments, learn to master the art of compliments. If she needs to you to come home on time, be on time. If you know that you are going to be late coming home, call her and let her know. If she needs you to help children with homework, spend time with the family instead of going out with your friend, or spend a quality time with her, give it to her. Being married is being of service. You give your wife because you love her. True giving is to give what the other person needs.
   
   

   
   

Always Be Available

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   Take care of her. Your wife may feel overwhelmed with kids and work. Don't hesitate to cook her favorite food or make her favorite drink. Help with the kids and help around the house (like doing dishes). Wives aren't superwomen as much as you'd like them to be.
   
   

   
   
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   Be her greatest supporter. Be someone she knows that she can always count on. Be there for her when she has had a long day. Listen to her with attentive eyes and ears. Back her up 100 percent! And always protect her, both physically and emotionally. If you have done something to hurt her, even if you didn't mean to, tell her you are sorry and show her affection. This must be sincere! There's nothing worse than an "I'm sorry" that is put on or phony.
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   Understand that your personal relationship should be more important to you than your other family members, work, friends, etc. She is your partner in all things. Treat her as such. If you're worried about looking independent in front of them, then talk with your wife and set clear expectations about what decisions you can make without each other, and what decisions must absolutely be discussed. But also, ask yourself why you feel you should look independent instead of married. It may not be hard to say "Let me talk this over with my other half."
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   Do your part. Don't make her ask you to pull your own weight around the house. This makes her feel like a nag, and it creates an adult/child relationship. Which is never good. She is your partner not your mother. Show her she can count on you to get things handled.

Be Responsible

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   Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions. The main difference between a man and a boy, and adult and a child, is that men are responsible. Men honor their commitments, accept their duties and are accountable for damages they incur, debts they owe and claims they make. Men clean up after themselves (figuratively and literally). Men know that anyone can father a baby but only a man who understands and accepts responsibility can be a good father. Men refuse to make anyone do anything they themselves are unwilling to do. Sometimes men make sacrifices for the people they love and care about. That's life. It's part of growing up, whether you like it or not. The difference between a man and a boy is that a man steps up to the plate, while a boy hesitates or complains.

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And trust me, Kindness is the only investment that never fails. And wherever there is a human being, there’s an opportunity for kindness. Learn to give, even if it’s just a smile, not because you have too much, but because you understand there are so many others who feel like they have nothing at all.

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A nice-looking business card not only shows professionalism but can also build your level of legitimacy and credibility. Small and micro businesses rely on referrals more than any other business demographic, and business cards are an effective, inexpensive and long lasting channel for referrals and networking. As it has for many other products, the Internet has made business cards more accessible and less expensive than they were 10 years ago. They’re easier to design, purchase and hand out than ever.

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Business cards are also about image. I know many small ecommerce merchants who run their business out of their basements, yet they do phenomenal business due to the professionalism of the business cards that they distribute. A professional image builds credibility in the minds of the customer and can make all the difference in generating a sale or not.

Business people who carry and distribute a stack of cheap, do-it-yourself, print-at-home, business cards templates wherever they go are doing themselves and their business a great disservice. Those cards are not likely to ignite or even support a great first impression in any way. And because of the longevity of a business card, the evidence of that failed opportunity may stick in your prospect’s files for years to come. Don’t think it doesn’t matter or that people don’t notice. People judge you on appearances, and your marketing materials play as much a role as your attire and demeanor. There are many top-notch printing companies out there that can give you a completely customizable business card design. I recommend you do it right and let the professionals do it for you.

Also remember that no matter how much you spend on your business cards size and dimensions, they will probably still be the cheapest and most effective piece of marketing collateral that you will ever buy.

Business card marketing ideas can be an effective and long-living form of marketing that improves the legitimacy of your company and keeps it in the mind of the customer longer, especially if the card stands out. The design of the card quickly communicates what your company is about, and piques the interest of people who see it. Not only will they keep the card, which increases the likelihood of a future purchase and improves branding, but they are also likely to share it with others, which greatly extends your reach. Many businesses include two business cards in every package they send out strictly for this purpose. The customer gets to keep one and can distribute the other if necessary.

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2.    Software programs such as Outlook allow users to create a contact card. This is the electronic version of a business card. Your contact information can then be included with every email.

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ü  Reduced Cost - The starting cost of online marketing is only a fraction of the thousands of dollars that Yellow Pages, television and radio ads cost. In addition, while traditional ads may only run for a short time, a search engine marketing techniques can deliver long-term results. You can also save money with online Pay-Per-Click advertising where it is easy to experiment with small ad volumes until you perfect your strategy and then expand your marketing budget when you are assured of a positive sales return. 

ü  Everything Is Measurable - When you place an ad in the newspaper or a magazine, it can be difficult to assess the direct sales impact for your business. With online marketing, everything can be tracked and illustrated in detailed graphs that illustrate traffic growth, leads and sales conversions from your specific search engine marketing campaigns. Using a free traffic analysis tool like Google Analytics, it is easy to calculate your return on investment (ROI) so you can appreciate the excellent value generated from your online marketing budget. 

ü  Brand Engagement - In the crowded market, you need to establish and maintain positive brand awareness and client loyalty. Apart from word-of-mouth and leveraging your personal relationships with your established clients, a website is the most important marketing tool a business can have. A regularly updated website with well-written content that maintains people’s interest is essential to showing people exactly how your business is distinctive - and how you offer the best value to your clients. 

ü  Demographic Targeting - The degree to which an internet marketing campaign can target and measure the response from specific demographics and regions such as Toronto is often astonishing to business owners who normally use traditional media. New demographic prediction and online advertising platforms allow you to specifically target the specific consumer demographics most likely to buy your products. In particular, if you want to target young people between the ages of 16-30, you'll need an online marketing strategy to reach them where they spend the bulk of their time: On the Internet and on social media sites. 

ü  Real-Time Results - With internet marketing you don’t have to wait weeks to see a significant boost in your business. With a paid search engine marketing campaign you can experience real-time results that enable you to fine-tune your marketing message to achieve your desired effect. If your marketing strategy isn't working effectively, real-time monitoring tools allow you to easily pin-point exactly where you are going wrong. 

ü  Easily Refine Your Strategy - Using online marketing analytics and tracking tools you can test conversion rates at a fraction of the cost of a traditional media campaign. Online marketing levels the playing field and allows savvy small businesses to compete in competitive niches that previously would only be open to large corporations and their massive marketing budgets. If your marketing strategy is not bringing in the return on investment (ROI) that you desire, you can work to perfect it without having to launch an expensive new campaign as would be required with most traditional media outlets. 

ü  Long-Term Exposure - The benefit of an organic search engine marketing campaign that optimizes a website for specific keywords is that you will achieve a long-term return on your investment. Once your website’s visibility is well-established with search engines, it is easy to do regular low-cost maintenance of your strategy. The early adopters of new online marketing platforms like social media marketing will have a significant head start over their competition. 

ü  Product Information - Today’s savvy consumers want to compare reviews and opinions of friends, trusted bloggers and industry experts before they make a decision. If you can provide quality, linkable information that is what people are looking for, then the next step of converting users into paying clients can be very easy. With social media networks like Facebook and Twitter re-enforcing the value of positive word-of-mouth exposure, trust is more important than ever in the marketing field. 

ü  Less Intrusive - Most savvy consumers dislike intrusive traditional marketing methods like direct mailing, print ads and television advertisements. When someone buys a newspaper or magazine, they want to read interesting articles not be bombarded with irrelevant ads. While mediums like television can still be useful for maintaining awareness of large corporate brands, it is not an effective medium for most small and medium-size businesses. With online marketing, you can target consumers precisely when they are searching for products and services that your business can provide.

ü  Holds Their Attention - When people read the newspaper or a magazine they may scan over the advertisements beside the article but there is no way to engage their attention. With internet marketing you can encourage them to take action, visit your website and read about your products and services which results in vastly increased “stickiness” of your marketing message.

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Budget Highlights - 2013-2014

ü  Iodised salt, match-boxes, soya products to become cheaper

ü  Increase customs duty on imported cars to 75%

ü  Raises custom duty on import on large SUVS

ü  Increase excise duty on some Cigarettes

ü  Customs duty on gold bar coins raised to 4%

ü  Customs duty on platinum raised

ü  Customs duty on gold raised

ü  Some infra services exempted from service tax

ü  Tax exemption of up to Rs 5,000 for health insurance towards annual preventive check up

ü  Basic customs duty on bicycles raised to 30%

ü  Exempts LCD LED panels from customs duty

ü  Iron ore machinery part duty cut to 2.5%

ü  Airline parts exempted from basic custom duty

ü  Rs 15,890 crore for recapitalisation of PSU banks

ü  Coal LNG exempt from customs duty

ü  Exemption of customs duty of 5% on equipment for fertilizer plants

ü  To keep peak custom rate unchanged

ü  To raise duty on large cars 27 pc duty

ü  Excise duty hiked to 12 pc from 10 pc

ü  Service tax raised to 12 pc from 10 pc

ü  FY13 market borrowing at Rs 4.79 lakh cr.

ü  Introduction of compulsory reporting requirement of assets held abroad

ü  To exempt some movie services from service tax

ü  Govt services, education, entertainment, public transport exempted from service tax

ü  School education exempted from service tax

ü  FM says information on black money stashed abroad has started flowing in and prosecution to be executed in some cases

ü  Removes restriction on venture capital investment

ü  No change in corporate tax

ü  Income above 10 lakh will have 30% income tax

ü  Income from 5 to 10 lakh will have 20% income tax

ü  Income Tax at 10 percent for Rs 2-5 lakh

ü  Tax exemption limit up to 2 lakh

ü  Introduce new law for micro finance institutions

ü  FY12 fiscal deficit at 5.9% and FY13 fiscal deficit at 5.1%

ü  7 medical colleges to be upgraded to All India Institutes

ü  FY13 non plan expenditure at 9.7 lakh crores

ü  Non-tax revenue receipts estimated at Rs 1.64 lakh crores

ü  Additional 3 per cent interest subvention to farmers for promptly repaying their due

ü  Rs 25,555 cr for Right to Education in FY13

ü  Rs 193107cr in FY13 for defense

ü  Rs 1000 crores for National Skill Development Fund in FY13

ü  Rs 15,850 crore to be allocated to Integrated Child Development Scheme in 2012-13

ü  Pranab says the Nandan Nilekani panel recommendation on direct transfer of subsidy accepted

ü  NRHM allocation increased to Rs 20,820 cr.

ü  FM announces new equity savings scheme

ü  Rs 14000 crore for rural drinking and sanitation in FY 13

ü  Rs 242 crore project with World Bank assistance to improve dairy production.

ü  Credit guarantee fund for education loans

ü  National mission for food processing

ü  6,000 schools proposed to be set up in 12th year plan

ü  1 percent loan subsidy on home loans up to Rs 15 lakh

ü  New PDS for food security

ü  Allocate Rs 14232 cr to UID project

ü  Set up state-run irrigation facility

ü  Remove infrastructure bottleneck: FM

ü  Budget commits to multi-brand FDI

ü  Tax free-infra bond for Rs 60,000

ü  Allow ECB funding to finance working capital needs of airlines for 1 year

ü  Rs 30,000 crore to be raised through disinvestment

ü  To make 8,800 km of highways in FY13; outlay raised

ü  Irrigation, dams eligible for a special fund

ü  Tax exemption on individual share investment below Rs 10 lakhs

ü  Become self sufficient in urea production in next 5 years

ü  Some subsidies inevitable, says Pranab

ü  FM promises tax incentive for new investors

ü  Considering FDI in airlines

ü  Infrastructure debt fund launched

ü  Sensex trading 180 points higher

ü  Food subsidy will be fully provided for in the Budget

ü  Consortium for direct lending approved

ü  Implement direct tax code the earliest

ü  Focus on removing infrastructure bottlenecks

ü  Direct cash subsity to LPG, Kerosene

ü  Signs of turnaround in economy in March

ü  Address malnutrition decisively

ü  Bring down subsidy to 1.7 percent of GDP in the next 3 years

ü  Economy to grow at 7.6 percent in 2012/13

ü  Direct subsidy to retailers, farmers

ü  Address the problem of black money; FM expects inflation will come down; Have to accelerate pace of reforms

ü  Need to improve supply side in economy says FM

ü  Performance this year was disappointing but as compared to peers India was better says FM

ü  Weak industrial growth has held us back says Pranab

ü  Pranab Starts the budget presentation. He syas for Indian economy it has been a year of recovery interrupted.

ü  DMK MPs not attending Parliament for the Budget

ü  Can Pranab Mukherjee take the initiative to halt the deteriorating economic growth? Can he make this a significant budget?

ü  Rupee strengthens before budget

ü  Oil & Gas: expect status quo to be maintained on customs and excise duties in the oil & gas sector in the light of the sustained high losses on sales of subsidized petroleum products at current retail selling price.

ü  Nominal GDP growth of 14 to 14.5 percent is likely to be used for the budget arithmetic

ü  In the fertilizer and chemical sector, there is an expectation that the customs duty on various inputs like LNG, Naphtha, Alcohol, Propylene etc will be removed from current rate of 5 percent.

ü  In the automobile sector, the expectation is that there will be an increase in excise duty across segments and also there is possibility of additional tax on diesel vehicles.

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