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Every Day is A New Day

New day.. New office location.. New Seat.. So many new things happened to me before this new year comes. Newness always brings enthusiasm and excitement. Hope this New Year also comes with hand full of surprises as Every Day is a New Day indeed..!!!

12 Most Famous Love Stories of All Time

When: 31 BC Where: Rome and Egypt What’s So Special about Their Love: These two had a love so strong, war was waged against them to break them up. When Mark Antony left his wife, Octavia, for the mesmerizing Cleopatra, Octavia’s brother Octavian brought the army of Rome to destroy them. These two lovers were so entranced with each other that they committed suicide rather than be apart- the ultimate Romeo and Juliet true love story.

Mahatma`s Teachings

I like both the movies MunnaBhai MBBS and Lage Raho MunnaBhai. I dont know about the Gandhi`s political decisions but I believe in his teachings to the nation.

Universal Truth about Boys............lolz!!

Now i truly admit, Google is very very very smart......

Friday, April 16, 2010

Essence

I am still in a very contemplative mood.

I guess a personal loss makes us question a lot of things.
It makes us question what we are doing here on Earth?
What is the essence of life?
What is important to us?
What are our priorities?
And I am not sure that we ever get the answers.

But I value if you can suggest me by commenting on how should i deal with such situations and thank you for allowing me the time I needed to myself.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Live Life The Way You Want

In fact, right now as I am writing,
I just want you to feel very comfortable with yourself.
Just relax! Take a deep breathe and count one, two, three
and breathe out slowly.

How many of you are still going to work,
hoping to find better balance in life when u never seemed
to have it all all at the same time?

No one can take better control of your life other than yourself.
Reports have shown that those who have control over what they want
in life have better overall wellness, able to associate better
with others, due to the positiveness in them.

Imgaine running your work at your fingertips where everything
seemed much easier with easy ease.

But wait a second, are you afraid to try something unknown to you
due to fear.

You really have nothing to worry about.

Before anyone of us is successful in life, most of us go through
the following phrase:

Acquire of a product
--->
product doesn't seem to work that well
---->
we go under depression
--->
we work on the product again
--->
more work
--->
more results=less sweat,
more effect =

RESULTS ACHIEVED!

In all area of life, everything is a process,
we cannot cheat the learning process.
It is through the learning process that we rediscover
ourselves again and build a better and stronger inner self.

So why not allow yourself some time to relax and
take better control of your life just the way you want.

Remember, your mind is the captain of your subconscious mind
who controls the soldiers. The soldiers follow the captain's order.

So tell your mind, YOU CAN!!!

I will see you on the top:)

Things You'll Need:

* A relax mind
* Happy mindset


Step 1

Get yourself a daily journal. Record the five major concern in your life.

Step 2

Each day, go through your five major concerns and write down ways in which you can make slight improvement to better it.

Step 3

Be consistent! Take note of the changes in yourself. Feel the difference!

Friday, March 19, 2010

When Life Seems Out of Control

Just when you think life seems out of control,
sometimes things actually get worse.
You must keep in mind that even though things around you
seem out of control and hopeless that the reality of the
situation is that you as a person are not!
There are things in your life that happen that are out
of your hand' s. During this time though you have to
remember that even though your life seems chaotic and
confusing there are certain things you do have the power
to change.

Things You'll Need:

* time
* patience
* wisdom
* determination

The first thing is that you have the capacity to change your mindset!
Your mindset can be your worst enemy or your best advocate
but you have to be the one to choose. This is not something that you may
have to choose just one time either ...
every single day you have to get up with determination in your heart!
There are better things in store for you.

You have the capacity to change your attitude!
Realize that this is not happening to destroy you as an individual.
There may have been circumstances that have played out in your life
that may have been intended to hurt or destroy you.
However, you will have the victory over these things and those people.

Thirdly, you have the capacity to keep your health in check!
Life can get depressing and things get left go along with unpaid bills...
do not let this be your health. Take a few minutes every day to go for
a walk, run, and make yourself something healthy to eat.
It is all to easy to turn to comfort food to help you somehow "cope"
with the loss. Turn to what can actually help you long term in your
overall vitality: which is... better eating, more exercise, embrace
the people in your life to help you and do this together.

Fourth step to remember is that you have the capacity to still be
there for your family! In spite of your situation do not check out on
your wife, husband, or children. There are incredibly trying times
that can destroy your personal relationships.
Stress, tension, and utter frustrations can make you an entirely
different human being to those living with you.
Take control of your actions and words and respect each others
boundaries and feelings. You can say whatever you want to if you want to
live a boundary less life and cause irreversible damage to those you
live with. If you want to maintain a peaceful and nurturing home than
it is time to figure out how to control your mouth, opinions, and
brashness.

And lastly, you have the capacity to CHANGE the CIRCUMSTANCE!
You have found yourself in the middle of a crisis, whether it be
financial, relational, or physical. All of these things you may never
have expected or thought could happen to you!
The wonderful news is this ... you still have breath in your lungs!
You also have a mind that God gave you to use and do something with
besides hold your ears separate from one another!
Use your mind to think about what your to do and pray very hard that
you have wisdom.

"Finally ... whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is just,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever things are of a good report,
if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things"

Thursday, March 18, 2010

B Positive in Tough Time

We all have those times in our lives when things are less than perfect.
It's hard to stay positive in tough times,
but it's also very important to stay positive in tough times.
There are ways that you can make it a bit easier on yourself.

This is really challenging but i guess it works like

Keep yourself busy. The more time you spend doing nothing,
the more time you have to think about the negatives so give yourself a distraction.

Surround yourself with good people. Spend time with those you love and those who love you back,
even when it's hard. When things aren't going your way, it's nice to rest assured that people love you.

Distance yourself from those who bring negativity into your life.
They'll make it nearly impossible to stay positive in tough times,
especially if they're always bringing you down.
Sometimes this can be extremely difficult, especially when these sorts of people are the ones you're closest to.
I'm not saying you should cut them out of your life completely,
simply keep them at a safe distance for a while.

Do something good for others. Helping those in need will always make your heart happy
and bring a smile to your face. Donate some clothes to a clothing drive,
donate some food to a food pantry, or donate some of your time to clean up your
neighborhood or surrounding neighborhoods.

Don't feel bad, guilty, worthless, etc.
Everyone experiences these emotions at some point in their life. Keep in mind that you're human and these feelings are natural.

Do something that you've always been wanting to do, but never were able to do.
If you've always wanted to go to school to be a nurse,
do it. If you've always wanted to learn how to do yoga, do it.
If you've always wanted to dance, do it. The sky's the limit.
Only you can make your dreams come true.

Buy yourself a gift. It doesn't have to be anything eccentric,
just a little something that makes you happy.
This could be treating yourself to a day at the spa,
treating yourself to dinner at a fancy restaurant you've been wanting to try,
treating yourself to tickets to see your favorite sports team play,
or just buying yourself a little gift.

Learning how to stay positive in tough times can be extremely challenging,
but realize that no matter how bad things get,
it could always be worse and be thankful for what you do have.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

BIG word SACRIFICE in LOVE

Loving someone unconditionally is to love him for whom he is without any expectations. It is not easy to learn about an abstract concept like love.

To understand the basis for a deeper and meaningful relationship with unconditional love,

Take responsibility for how you react to a person or situation. You are the one that determines if you are happy or sad. Prevent the blame game and gain control over your life and love.

Approach your love relationship without any predetermined mindset. Know that nobody is perfect and everyone has her own gifts and shortcomings.

Give the space and freedom the other person needs. To love someone deeply is to grow together in the spirit. Controlling the other person does not assure you of a secure relationship. The feeling of your partner's love is enough security.

Believe that love given in its truest form comes back one way or the other. Give yourself wholeheartedly without any boundaries. Love is possible without hurt only when ego is dropped completely.

Accept your partner and their limitations without any judgment.
Grow in the relationship based on trust and sacrifice instead of self-satisfaction alone.

Never think Marriage is the ultimate goal of love. Family, Values, Acceptance, Trust & Confidence bring zeal to life.

Love the other person for their existence in your life than for what they do for you.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Help Poor get an Education

This is the biggest help one can done for the welfare of the society.
Poorest and most needy dont have the ability to think.
They know begging since birth. They dont know how to get rid of their problems.
Helping poor get an education is a shining example of how a small gesture brings hope to many who would otherwise never have a chance.
Make the poor parents realise what they want for their children.
They understand what a good education can bring.
Yet, the education bureaucracy continues to funding for each child and forces students into schools where they will receive a good education.
We need to act for other people in our society
It may be our house maid, our relative, our neighbour or anyone intersted in studying but not getting financial aid
We can see that education loan is around approx 12% which is unbearable in today`s competitive world.
To help out any case of education loan can make the career & life of not only that child but of their whole family.
So start funding the child with love & education.
Funding the child will bring hope to many & to the nation as well.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

kyunki mai naraaz hoon......

Mujhe bhi Choclate & Coco spa chahiye..
Ek joy ride chahiye apni city ki by my private jet..
I want an adventurous holiday on weekend to manesar..
& most essentially I want to get myself pampered like Princess..

If anybody can shower me all this luxuries then only I will come back in mood!!

Friday, February 12, 2010

Love vs Arrange Marriage

I just don`t understand why people are still against love marriages.
They give their children a freedom to eat, dress, study, pursue hobbies & career of their own choices but not marriage.
They trust their childrens, love them, adore them & fulfill their all wishes.

But when it comes to marriage, scenario changes..

First they object on caste, then they object on looks, then they object on financial status.
I mean what they suddenly start thinking.
They are loosing control and resist change only i guess.

For marriage, compatability should be seen, insecurirites should be sort out, dreams & thinking should be matched.

And please leave back your conservative approach and accept happily the new people in your life.

With love all things are possible
Make sure there is no guarantee in arrange marriage to be successful.

So don`t stick to old rituals so firmly and keep on believing it is right all the time.

Its about perspective only.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Life is not so easy

You never know what is going to be come in your way even in next 2 minutes.
No No I am not talking about all the good things but the unexpected shocks which we get when we were not even prepared for..

I had the same jhatka right now regarding PBI.

& right now I am just absorbing it silently........ gulpppss!!!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

All is Well

All is Well funda really works..

I apply it to relax from my anxiety about my last exam or presentation seminar or project deadline.

Its true that situation or a time once gone can never come back then why to worry all the time about the things we can`t change.

So make your heart fool by saying All is Well and one day definitely things will become perfectly which you actually wanted or desire or deserve.

For now laugh at confusion, smile through tears & someday everything will make perfect sense because whatever happens - happens for the reason..

Monday, January 25, 2010

3 Idiots

I am a big fan of Aamir.
He is such a perfectionist and from his movie he spreaded an excellent message that,

DONT RUN AFTER SUCCESS INSTEAD STRIVE FOR EXCELLENCE


Its true & i believe in it.

So many things to learn from this movie.
After LOVE AAJKAL I like it.

Its a must watch..

Saturday, November 14, 2009

The Gentle Whisper

The young man had lost his job and didn't know which way to turn. So he went to see the old preacher. Pacing about the preacher's study, the young man ranted about his problem. Finally he clenched his fist and shouted, "I've begged God to say something to help me. Tell me, Preacher, why doesn't God answer?"
The old preacher, who sat across the room, spoke something in reply -- something so hushed it was indistinguishable.
The young man stepped across the room. "What did you say?" he asked.
The preacher repeated himself, but again in a tone as soft as a whisper.
So the young man moved closer until he was leaning on the preacher's chair.
"Sorry," he said. "I still didn't hear you."
With their heads bent together, the old preacher spoke once more.
"God sometimes whispers," he said, "so we will move closer to hear Him.."
This time the young man heard and he understood.
We all want God's voice to thunder through the air with the answer to our problem.
But God's is the still, small voice . . . the gentle whisper.
Perhaps there's a reason.
Nothing draws human focus quite like a whisper.
God's whisper means I must stop my ranting and move close to Him, until my head is bent together with His.
And then, as I listen, I will find my answer.
Better still, I find myself closer to God.

OUR HIDDEN WISH
you keep on wishing thingswithout giving a real thoughtbetter guard your thinking, dear
for it might be delivered to your doorstep...

just be grateful for all the things
that is coming on your way
be it your job or something
just learn to smile and pray...

people and all the situations
sometimes are beyond control
disrupting our long-term plans
creating havoc on our lives...

always remember this
there is no coincidence
things are happening to us
because it is our hidden wish....

Umemployed Graduate

An unemployed graduate woke up one morning and checked his pocket. All he had left was $10.
He decided to use it to buy food and then wait for death as he was too proud to go begging.
He was frustrated as he could find no job, and nobody was ready to help him.
He bought food and as he sat down to eat, an old man and two little children came along and asked him to help them with food as they had not eaten for almost a week.
He looked at them.
They were so lean that he could see their bones coming out.
Their eyes had gone into the sockets.
With the last bit of compassion he had, he gave them the food.
The old man and children prayed that God would bless and prosper him and then gave him a very old coin.
The young graduate said to them 'you need the prayer more than I do'.
With no money, no job, no food, the young graduate went under the bridge to rest and wait for death.
As he was about to sleep, he saw an old newspaper on the ground.
He picked it up, and suddenly he saw an advertisement for people with old coins to come to a certain address.
He decided to go there with the old coin the old man gave him.
On getting to the place, he gave the proprietor the coin.
The proprietor screamed, brought out a big book and showed the young graduate a photograph.
This same old coin was worth 3 million dollars.
The young graduate was overjoyed as the proprietor gave him a bank draft for 3 million dollars within an hour.
He collected the Bank Draft and went insearch of the old man and little children.
By the time he got to where he left them eating, they had gone.
He asked the owner of the canteen if he knew them.
He said no but they left a note for you.
He quickly opened the note thinking it would lead him to find them.
This is what the note said: 'You gave us your all and we have rewarded you back with the coin,' signed God the Father, The Son and The Holy Ghost.